Despite all the pain and anger over the past couple weeks, the strongest and most consistent feeling since ending things with the gender-expansive guy with whom I had hooked up has been that of “getting my life back”. Something cracked, and that’s where the pain comes. But the crack is also allowing “good stuff” toContinue reading “Oh, sweet liberation!”
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A hole is a space you can fill
On Monday evening, a relationship that I cared about, or hoped for, ended. In reality, in my own head & heart, that relationship had ended already the previous week. In fact, on Sunday, foreseeing a difficult conversation with the gender-expansive gay guy from the chorus and ensuing “emotional wreck” state for me, I reached outContinue reading “A hole is a space you can fill”
The boy who got a salpingectomy
[Trigger warning: some medical details on salpingectomy & endometrial ablation surgeries.] I am a boy. A nonbinary, trans, aro-ace gay boy. A boy with a vagina and uterus and ovaries. And a boy who just got a salpingectomy and endometrial ablation. That means I got the lining of my uterus cauterized and removed so IContinue reading “The boy who got a salpingectomy”
The Little Prince and the Fox 