“The people I love the best”

Yesterday evening I started my first poetry class and the instructor shared a poem by Marge Piercy, To be of use.  To me this felt like a concrete image of love, of friendship, as I imagine it, as I experience it. This is the way I hope to give and receive love and friendship —Continue reading ““The people I love the best””

Choosing my personal safety: an act of self-care

I’m feeling frustrated. Even sad and somewhat angry. Yet what I did yesterday evening was a practical, firm act of self-care and a concrete instance of putting one of my New Year’s resolutions into practice, i.e. “not pursuing unavailable relationships/situations”.  The plans for yesterday evening were that I was going to meet one of myContinue reading “Choosing my personal safety: an act of self-care”

The gift of friendship

A few days ago, one of my closets friends here in Colorado said to me that I “have a gift for friendship”.  That’s one of the highest compliments I could be given, one of the loveliest things I could be told. And I’m not sure I deserve such a compliment.  More simply, I would sayContinue reading “The gift of friendship”