TDOR 2025

[Trigger warnings: transphobia; physical/psychological/emotional violence; death.] Today is Trans Days Of Remembrance.  This year, given the actual war that the fascist Trump administration is leading against our community, it is a sadder and more important day than ever to remember.  I’m one of the lucky ones — at least, for now. I live in aContinue reading “TDOR 2025”

It gets more terrifying for trans people every day

[Trigger warning: transphobic measures] Trans (as well as nonbinary, gender-nonconforming, and intersex) people are being stripped of their human rights, daily, one move at a time (& this latest move affects me directly, in a terrifying way, both for my passport and for my CRBA):  “…  According to the new memo, passports and Consular ReportContinue reading “It gets more terrifying for trans people every day”

Feb. 6th, 2025: News Dump

[Trigger warning: massive transphobia] Sorry that I haven’t gone through this in more detail or sorted it better, but this needs to be put out there.  Please just pick one and read.  I’m going to put the “good news” first because I think we need it more than ever now. Trans Formations Project Weekly LegislativeContinue reading “Feb. 6th, 2025: News Dump”

My internalized transphobia

I had another awful afternoon & evening at the gay men’s chorus’ rehearsal. Gone was all the euphoric gender-bending of the past few days; back was the internalized transphobia in all its visciousness. Since the second week I have been going to rehearsals without wearing my two “statement wristbands” (the nonbinary-flag colors & trans-flag colors)Continue reading “My internalized transphobia”